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The Financial Way of Thinking
is a guidebook for bettering your financial condition. Its focus is
both present and future oriented. It seeks to answer two lines of
questioning: First, where are you today and what can you do to
improve your current situation? Second, where are you going and what
can you do to ensure that you continuously improve throughout life?
Thus, as much as anything,
The Financial Way of Thinkingis
just that: a way of thinking. Its aim is to aid you in improving the
course of your financial life by improving the way you think - and
act - in regard to matters integral to your personal finances. As
such,The
Financial Way of Thinkingis
not limited in its scope. Success or failure on your part does not
lie in one or two areas. Rather it will be found in a whole-scale
approach, one that incorporates a variety of subjects and aspects
connected to you.
That said,
The Financial Way of Thinking
is about more than just thinking. It presents a
way of thinking
about personal credit, debt, and related issues with the purpose of
improving one's overall financial condition. Fundamental to this way
of thinking are four principles that serve as the foundation stones
on which to build a successful life; without them one cannot
succeed. To ignore any one of these pillars of right thinking is to
risk your opportunity for success. To ignore several of these
principles at one time is to place your ability to lead a happier
and more fulfilling life into peril.
1) Happiness Lies in the Realization of Your Potential:
As Aristotle pointed out so long ago, all of reality is divided
into two basic categories:Potency (potential) and Act (actuality).
Happiness, fulfillment, nirvana - however you describe
perfection - lies in the actualization of your potential. Put
another way, happiness will not be found in "talking the talk" but
rather in "walking the walk." It is only when you turn possibilities
into realities that you experience the kind of real and lasting
happiness that each of us, by our very nature, seeks.
Thus, everything you think and do either leads to, or away
from, the realization of your full potential. There is no "middle
ground" per sé. Everything you think and do in respect to your
finances will either improve or worsen your overall condition.
Think of this in terms of your physical health. Everything you
do (e.g., exercise regularly or sit on the couch every night and
watch television), either improves or diminishes your overall
fitness. Everything you do makes you healthier or unhealthier. In
addition to your physical activity, health consists in nutrition,
rest, regular check-ups, and a proper attitude. All are essential to
continuously improving your health. And what you do, or fail to do,
in every respect either adds to, or detracts from, your overall
health.
The same can be said about your personal finances. In order to
actualize your full financial potential you are going to have to
attend to a variety of things (some of which even go beyond the
scope of this book). Before doing so, however, you will have to
accept the two basic principles of human life: First, happiness lies
in the process of turning possibilities into realities. Second,
everything you do or fail to do either adds to, or detracts from,
this process.
These are very important points to remember. They serve as the
doorway to the rest. That is, without them the remaining principles
will serve you well but the likelihood is that they will not serve
you very long or for lengthy periods of time. Get these two
principles down and the rest will follow.
2) Attitude:
The importance of holding and maintaining a proper attitude
cannot be over-emphasized.If you are going to change the way you
think and act about your finances, having a proper attitude is
fundamental. No matter what you have done to this point in your life
it is absolutely paramount that you are both hopeful about
the possibilities that the future presents and confident that
you can achieve them.
If you lack hope or confidence you will not succeed. In fact,
you cannot succeed. Success can only be achieved when you believe
that it is both possible and realizable. Thus, maintaining a winning
attitude is as indispensable as oxygen is to breathing.
3) Persistence:
It is vital that you persist in the achievement of your goals
and new habits. Make a contract with yourself in which you establish
a plan of action and commit to that action. Promise yourself that,
no matter what, you will succeed. Determine right here and now that
even if you fall once in awhile you will get back up and begin
moving forward and that you will achieve your overall goal.
Remember, the best way to overcome any bad habit is with a good
habit and good habits are the combined result of a resolution to
change followed by continuous effort with ultimately no exceptions.
Although it is easier said than done, healthy change is possible but
it comes one moment, one hour, and one day at a time over even
longer periods of time.
4) Patience:
Patience is one of the most talked-about and least-realized
virtues in life. There is no shortage of persons today who can tell
you about the need for patience. Yet, in a world of drive-thru
service and television programs that resolve life's most pressing
problems in 30 and 60-minute intervals there is an abundance of
people who think that everything good should happen overnight. If
you are going to change the way you think and, thus, the way you act
in regard to your personal finances you will have to be able to
endure and persevere. Remind yourself that the road to success is
the longest and most difficult, but most satisfying, path you will
ever choose to follow in life. You did not get into your present
position overnight and you are not, therefore, going to improve it
overnight either.
Patience with yourself and with anyone that may be involved in
your situation - everyone from creditors, debt collection agencies,
and credit reporting agencies to financial counselors and advisors -
is an absolute must. No doubt you are going to lose heart now and
again. And that is normal. You would not be human if you did not
grow weary. Nevertheless, when you do, remind yourself that it is
the slow, steady, and persistent pace that wins the race. Just
because you (or someone you are counting on) fail periodically is
not nearly reason enough to stray from or abandon your course of
action.
As you continue down the path of success you may find it
helpful to review these four fundamental principles now and again.
Remind yourself that you are on a new and better course of life that
requires the right kind of thinking about the right things at the
right time and in the right manner. Let these four principles guide
you in getting on, and staying on, the right path.
Finally, for all the things thatThe
Financial Way of Thinking
is, it is not a reference manual for determining
everything that you can and should do at any given point in time.As
explained above, it is a guidebook for improving your financial
condition. It is more of a compass for better and improved direction
than a roadmap and an itinerary telling you precisely where and when
to go. As every person is different, it is very likely that the
course of action each of us follows will also be different. You may
discover at some point, for example, that you require the assistance
of financial and legal professionals.The
Financial Way of Thinking
should never be viewed as a replacement for more specialized forms
of assistance or direction when and where needed. |